Today, December 1, the 35th World AIDS day is observed with a theme of “Remember & Commit.” This day serves to continue the effort to show support for those living with HIV/AIDS and to work toward ending the stigma.

In keeping with the remember theme, I was thrown back to nursing school when the virus had not yet been identified. The method of transmission was unknown and there were not effective treatments against this virus. The first person with HIV/AIDS I was assigned to care for was a young 23-year-old male who exhibited many symptoms. Anyone entering his room was required to double glove, double gown & wear a mask. Health care workers were afraid and uncertain including me; this patient was terrified and alone. Because he was gay, his family elected to have no communication with him. He certainly touched my heart as he suffered by himself. I will not forget him. There were so many like him and for a long time, most patients with HIV/AIDS were blamed and shunned. As I think back to this, I am reminded of Matthew 7:12 “So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you…” My hope is that no matter the disease, the circumstance, etc., we can show our love and acceptance of the person.

Today, there are effective anti-viral treatments to reduce the amount of the virus in the body and medications that can be taken in the event of exposure. However, there is no cure. People living with HIV/AIDS still experience stigma. Many states still have laws on the books that criminalize those with HIV and certain behaviors. There is still work to be done. To learn more, visit www.hiv.gov.

Peace,
Janet, Director of Pastoral Care
December 1, 2023